Hi CS! How exciting! That's quite an undertaking, but I'm sure everything you make will turn out just great. I wish I lived close so I could help! And I would really love to hear you sing. I sang in a band for several years..late teens and early 20s...back when I was a hippie. LOL What memories.....
Here are some appys you might consider. Not sure how fancy you want. I'll post some main course and veggies later. I've got a wonderful apple pie recipe I'll post, too. It is to die for! I don't have a clue on the wines, though.
Sweet Chicken Bacon Wraps by Paula Deen
1 1/4 pounds boneless skinless chicken
1 pound package sliced bacon
2/3c brown sugar (firmly packed)
2 Tbs chili powder
Cut chicken into 1 inch cubes.
Cut each piece of bacon in half,stir together brown sugar and chili powder.Wrap chicken in the bacon and dredge in brown sugar mixture.Place them on a cookie sheet.(spray with cooking spray) and bake at 350 for 30 minutes.
These can be made ahead and reheated as needed.
Chicken Bites
Just 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts will make a ton of bite sized chicken pieces. I cube them, put them in a large bowl, season with salt and pepper then drizzle with oil and toss until coated. Roll them, a few at a time in panko bread crumbs. Fry in hot oil just a few minutes until golden.
Instead of coating with oil, you can dip them in frothy egg whites before rolling in crumb mixture.
You can also coat them with crushed buttery crackers, crushed cornflakes, seasoned dry breadcrumbs and pan fry them in oil/butter. If you don't like to fry food, they are good baked at 350 degrees for about 20 minutes.
Sometimes I add minced pecans, sesame seeds or grated Parmesan cheese to the crumbs. Serve with toothpicks and dipping sauce.
Creamy Chili Sauce
1 cup mayonnaise
1 cup sour cream
1/4 cup chili sauce
1/4 tsp cayenne pepper
Honey Mustard Sauce
1/2 cup mustard
1/3 cup light corn syrup
1/3 cup honey
1/3 cup mayo
Jalapeno Poppers
10 jalapenos
8 oz. cream cheese
10 strips bacon
Slice peppers in half lengthwise. Wearing gloves, remove seeds and membranes. Stuff cream cheese inside each pepper half. Spiral wrap each half with a half slice of bacon. Place on a broiler pan and bake in 375 degree oven for 30-35 minutes or until the bacon is done. These can be frozen before baking.
Meatballs, Cocktail Wieners or sliced Smoked Sausage
1 cup applesauce
2/3 cup brown sugar
2 tbsp onion, minced or grated
Combine ingredients and heat on low in crockpot or on stove.
These are great stuffed with tuna salad or chicken salad, too.
Stuffed Tomatoes
16 - 18 cherry tomatoes
1/2 lb bacon, cooked and crumbled
6 oz cream cheese, softened
1/3 cup chopped green onions
1/4 tsp onion powder
salt and pepper to taste
3 tbsp grated parmesan cheese (optional)
Cut a thin slice off of each tomato top. Scoop out pulp. Invert the tomatoes on a paper towel to drain. (If needed, cut a very thin slice off the bottoms so they will sit flat.) Combine remaining ingredients. Thin with a little mayo if needed. Spoon into tomatoes.
This is a great make-ahead and freeze-before-baking appetizer. It only looks complicated. I make hundreds of these each year with different fillings.
Spanakopita
1/2 cup onions, chopped fine
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 10 oz package frozen chopped spinach - thawed, drained and squeezed dry
1 egg, lightly beaten
8 oz feta cheese, crumbled
8 oz cream cheese, softened
20 sheets 9x14 phyllo dough, thawed
1 cup butter, melted
1. Combine onions, garlic, spinach, egg and cheeses in a bowl and mix well.
2. Unroll dough on flat surface. Cover dough with a sheet of plastic wrap, then lay a damp dish towel on plastic wrap. This will keep dough from drying out and becoming brittle while you are making triangles.
3. Lay one sheet of dough on flat surface with the short side nearest you. Brush entire sheet with melted butter. Top with another sheet and butter. Cut sheets into 3 (or 4) long strips. Place 1 to 1 1/2 tablespoons of spinach cheese mixture at one end of strip. Fold one corner of the dough over the mixture, forming a triangle. Gently press to slightly flatten and evenly distribute the spinach mixture. Continue folding triangle end over end, like a flag. Place triangle on cookie sheet, seam side down. Cover loosely with plastic wrap.
4. Brush tops of each triangle with melted butter. Bake at 375 degrees for 15 - 20 minutes. Makes 30 very flaky triangles. Best when served immediately.
*Triangles can be frozen before baking.
**Do not cover or wrap triangles in plastic wrap or foil after baking while they are still hot or even warm. It will make them soggy.
Alternate fillings:
Savory Mushroom
8 ounces cream cheese
8 ounce can mushrooms, chopped
2 tablespoon chopped onions
8 slices bacon, cooked and crumbled
1/4 teaspoon hot pepper sauce
Tomato Mushroom
1 lb fresh mushrooms, chopped finely
1/4 cup sliced green onions
8 oz cream cheese
1 tsp pepper
8 oz sun-dried tomatoes
Watermelon and Brie Fingers
24 pinky finger-sized watermelon rectangles
24 slices brie cheese (about the same dimensions as the watermelon fingers)
8 slices prosciutto ham, cut into thirds, lengthwise
Place a piece of brie on top of each watermelon finger and wrap each with a slice of ham. Secure with a toothpick.
Hot Cheese Rounds
1 loaf white bread
1 stick butter, softened
4 oz cream cheese
1 egg yolk
1 cup grated cheddar cheese
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1 tbsp crushed garlic
Pinch of cayenne pepper
Cut the bread into rounds with a biscuit cutter. Butter the rounds well on both sides and brown them on both sides in a skillet. Cool completely.
Combine cream cheese, egg yolk, cheeses, garlic and pepper. Spread the cheese mixture onto one side of the rounds, making sure it is spread to the edges so the toast won't burn. Place on a baking sheet and broil several minutes until cheese bubbles and melts.
Chilled shrimp with cocktail sauce would be nice and very easy. I buy frozen cooked, cleaned shrimp at Sam's or WalMart. I put them in a colander and run cold water over them and they thaw in just a few minutes. I pat them dry and place them on a platter lined with lettuce leaves and lemon halves.
Shrimp and/or Crab Appetizer
12 oz cream cheese, softened
1 small jar cocktail sauce
Cooked shrimp
Flaked crab meat
1/2 cup sliced green onions
Spread cream cheese on plate. Top with cocktail sauce. Sprinkle with shrimp, crab and onions. Serve with crackers.