Hi chewthefat:
Have you looked here yet? http://www.bettycrocker.com/entertaining/casual-parties/
Sometimes I get inspired by a dish or theme when I'm entertaining!
Things that my friends loved when I make them:
Layered Dishes: I am not sure if it's the beautiful presentation, but I always get rave reviews when I make layered dishes.
So this might be fun for a dessert: http://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes.aspx/fudgy-brownie-trifle/ce60975e-de0e-4206-8cda-7350a544bee1
Stuffed Dishes:
I made these this year for superbowl and I still hear about how great they were: http://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes.aspx/mexican-pasta-shells/8165d9fa-cb99-4b94-b4e0-25a7bf6a00d8
Perfect main with a mexican theme!
Slow Cooker Mania: My friends think I'm a kitchen goddess when I make something from my slow cooker. I try to play down how easy it is.
http://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes.aspx/slow-cooker-mediterranean-pot-roast/1b80e16e-6c07-46c8-991e-ebd2bd2ac91e
Make it yourself- Themes!
I have so many friends that love this but hate that... it can be a challenge for any cook. Thus, I love taco parties... or you can do a basic pizza party... nacho party... things like this.
If you do a taco party... If your looking for some lively conversation- here is a fun free game you can play with them. :)
http://www.eltacodor.com/
Hope this helps or inspires! If you have time, please let us know what you ended up making.
Sincerely, Cate