Hi Jen
My grandkids are also very picky eaters--When they come here I try things like creamed chicken and noodles but accidently
put frozen mixed veggies or broccoli in it.
With practice you can hide alot of veggies in pizza and taco's.
I like to do make your own salad sometimes. You put out a bowl of mixed greens then all fresh veggies you can think of along with cheese and bacon bits . They have to put 4-5 things on their salad then use a sweet red dressing to keep them happy.
At grandma's you have to take 2 bites of whatever is served --only then can you reply you do not care for it.
Half the battle is just finding a way to get them to try it sometimes presentation has alot to do with it.
Did you ever put your p-butter on celery then put a couple raisins on it? It works!
Try to make mealtime fun instead of stressful and you have won half the battle.
Remember your winning ways--you will need them again when you have grands! Enjoy .