I was a teacher for over ten years, and during those ten years I received many gifts from thoughtful families. First, I have to say that I (and most teachers) never expect gifts, and hope that parents don’t feel obligated or stressed over giving gifts.
The best gifts—for anyone, including teachers—are given with knowledge of the recipient’s interests. My kids knew that I loved food and cooking, so I often received gifts related to cooking. A couple of my favorites are a terrifically cute spatula (which always reminds me of a lovely and smart gal named Morgan) every time I use it and a pair of oven mitts (again, a lovely reminder of a past student, the tenacious and intelligent Talia).
I have received wonderful treats made by my students and their families, and think happily of homemade turtles made by a wonderful gal named Jill. [See ideas for Homemade Holiday Treats.] Do be cautious about giving homemade treats, though, since people have different tastes. I’ve found that I’ve most enjoyed a small taste of something, rather than being overwhelmed by a large amount, say a large loaf of pumpkin bread. The same is true for store-bought foods, as I’ve had several large boxes of chocolates at one time, and that is a lot of chocolate to resist! Teachers do love healthier alternatives, so consider a few pieces of beautiful fruit in a small bag or a small tin of pistachios. One of the most memorable gifts I ever received were three pomegranates in a small basket wrapped in cellophane and tied with a matching luxurious ribbon.
I do have to say that I have a favorite gift of all—a thank you note. I mean the kind of thank you note that is more than a couple sentences long. I actually kept all mine in an album, and a lengthy one from a very sincere former student is framed and hangs on my office wall. Hearing that you made a difference in a child’s confidence, happiness or abilities is more valuable than any gift and truly sweeter than any sugary holiday treat.
What gifts do you give to teachers?
Teachers: What are your favorite gifts to receive?