You are so lucky to still have your Mom. Your Mom is 7 years older than I. Everybody, about 30 people, are going to congregate at our house again this year for Thanksgiving. For the last 3 years I've kinda thought that maybe the girls need to take over, but all of them live at the outer edge of a 50 mile perimeter and we are in the middle. Besides non of them have the room or the money to feed that many, plus there's nowhere to park that many cars and the kids have nowhere to run. We are on 5 acres. It sure takes lots of food. I usually make 6 10" deep dish pies, with lard of course, an apple bundt cake and a 12" New York cheese cake, and a triple batch of cranberry salad out of the 1950 Betty Crocker Cookbook. The cranberry is a tradition after making it for 60 years. Since we have 2 kitchens I'll do a turkey in my electric roaster and a ham and a leg of lamb in the oven, plus about 1 1/2 gal of dressing, sweet potatoes, creamed turnips. The girls can bring the mashed potatoes, 7 layer salad, green bean and corn casseroles, the tea, ice and other drinks. They can also bring all their love and good hand to do all the clean up work afterwards while I sit and relax and watch. Is that a good deal? Hugs, Oma